A Return To Reading: Elegance and Ecology

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http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/2.5/Daily Foglifter:  Hedgehogs swim, climb walls and trees, and can run with a speed of 4.5 mph.

I’m ashamed to say that I haven’t been reading very much lately.  I have three library books out and I’ve already had to renew them once.  That gives me four more weeks to finish them before they’re due.  I have also borrowed two books that I need to read and return.  I hope to get all five done in a month’s time.  It’s my Return to Reading challenge. 

Reading is a habit, but, unfortunately, it’s one that is easily broken.  I forget for a few days and suddenly it’s two weeks later and I haven’t read a thing.  It’s bad for my brain and it’s especially bad for my writing.  No one writes well who doesn’t read well.  Fortunately for me I have chosen two spectacular books to read first.  I don’t usually start one book before I’m done with another, but it was by happy accident that I discovered a book while at my in-laws’ house.  My extremely well-read father-in-law had checked a book out and I was intrigued by the title and picked it up.  I was hooked by the end of 10 pages.  So, it’s two books this week.

The book I picked up is Ecology of a Cracker Childhood by Jannise Ray.  Ray is a Georgia gal from the small town of Baxley, located about 78 miles from where I live.  The book is about her quest to save the longleaf pine ecosystem.  The subject hits close to home.  In the last month I’ve seen acres of pine trees cut down around my home for, I assume, another neighborhood of houses no one can afford to buy.  I normally wouldn’t read an “environmental” book because, quite frankly, they’re preachy, elitist, and dry as dust.  Ray is different.  It’s a book about conservation, yes, but it’s so much more.  It’s about her hard childhood and her effort to escape the embarrassment of living in a junkyard in the poor South.  It’s about her family and her connection to the land.  The story of her life and the history of the longleaf pine are woven together in a beautiful tale of loss and hope.

The creation ends in south Georgia, at the very edge of the sweet earth.  Only the sky, widest of the wide, goes on, flatness against flatness.  The sky appears so close that, with a long-enough extension ladder, you think you could touch it, and sometimes you do, when clouds descend in the night to set a fine pelt of dew on the grasses, leaving behind white trails of fog and mist. 

At night the stars are thick and bright as a pint jar of fireflies, the moon at full a pearly orb, sailing through them like an egret.  By day the sun, close in a paper sky, laps moisture from the land, then gives it back, always an exchange.  Even in drought, when each dawn a parched sun cracks against the horizon’s griddle, the air is thick with water.  (pg.3, Introduction to Ecology of a Cracker Childhood)

The other book I’m reading is The Elegance of the Hedgehog by Muriel Barbery.  I’m only halfway through this one but I absolutely love it so far.  I have a feeling it might end tragically but it will be a pleasurable pain.  With writing this sublime, how could it not be?  It was translated from French, and I can only imagine how much better it would be read in its original language.  The story is told by super-intelligent 12-year-old Paloma and Renee, a concierge in an elegant Parisian hotel.  I’m not going to go into the plot.  I’d rather you discover that for yourself. 

 

So, we mustn’t forget any of this, absolutely not. We have to live with the certainty that we’ll get old and that it won’t look nice or be good or feel happy.  And tell ourselves that it’s now that matters: to build something, now, at any price, using all our strength.  Always remember that there’s a retirement home waiting somewhere and so we have to surpass ourselves every day, make every day undying.  Climb our own personal Everest and do it in such a way that every step is a little bit of eternity.

That’s what the future is for: to build the present, with real plans, made by living people.  (pg. 129, final paragraph of Profound Thought No. 8 )

 

Note:  Both these books are available at thriftbooks.com

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What is Your Celebrity Nickname? and Other Deep Questions

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My Mondays are always awful.  If something is going to go wrong, it’s going to go wrong on a Monday.  When I think about facing another Monday the expression, “I’d rather have my teeth pulled out” comes to mind.  So that’s what I’m going to do.  I’m having my wisdom teeth pulled.  By the time you read this, I should be in bed in a drug-induced stupor, oblivious to any of the drama that is going on around me.  If everything goes according to plan, of course.  Considering my typical Monday this might be too much to hope for.  Can you say “Dry Socket?”

Of course, a mom cannot go MIA for an entire day without making preparations.  Laundry.  Planning an easy dinner.  Writing down everything that needs doing on Monday.  You know, fun stuff.  I don’t have time to write anything new,  but I’m going to continue from Friday. I got more comments in that one day than I have since I started this thing.   Who would’ve thought the subject of words would generate so much discussion? 

What do you think? 

It seems most people don’t like the word “blog.”  What word would be a good substitute? 

 

Celebrity Names.  If you or you and your significant other were famous what would you be called in gossip mags? 

Ex:  Brangelina, RPatz, TomKat

  

“Foreign” phrases.  For those non-Americans, what are some words or phrases that Americans might not be familiar with or might not use very often? 

 

Misused words or overly used expressions. 

“Ironic” comes to mind for the first.  For the second,  Invisible Mikey provided some good ones (It is what it is, Awesome, and Whatever).  I use 2 of the 3 on  a regular basis, but I see his point.  What are some others?

I look forward to your responses.  I hope to be back on Tuesday, but I may decide to just stay in bed.  After my parent/teacher conference, of course.  An excellent plan to schedule that the day after oral surgery, don’t you think? 

 

Please Stop Saying That!

There are some words that make my skin crawl. Some words are innately awful.  Some become awful because they are overused.  The worst are those that aren’t words at all, but a clever little variation of a word, designed to express disdain for what the original word means.  Confused?  I’ll explain it better in a minute.

Here’s a list of some of my least favorite words:

  • Blog  Although I write one, I don’t like to say the word.  There’s a certain connotation I’m not comfortable with.  The Urban Dictionary describes it best:  A meandering, blatantly uninteresting online diary that gives the author the illusion that people are interested in their stupid, pathetic life. Consists of such riveting entries as “homework sucks” and “I slept until noon today.”
  • Panties  This word is just creepy, particularly if referring to a grown woman’s undergarments.  It sounds dirty coming out of an adult’s mouth, especially a man’s.
  • Journey, or even worse, Amazing Journey  A staple in a Reality Show Contestant’s farewell montage after they’ve been rejected and sent packing.  The word journey implies a certain degree of importance, and there’s nothing important or amazing about sharing a man with a harem of vacuous women, desperately hoping he will allow you to be his bimbo, er, bride.
  • Empower, empowered, empowerment  This is a good word that has been blown completely out of proportion.  When I see or hear this word, especially when used in conjunction with the word “women,” I want to throw up.  It practically screams, “Women are helpless little victims in constant need of outside validation to prove their own self worth!”  I’ve heard this word in cosmetics and hair-dye ads.  The absolute worst use of this word came from Jennifer Love Hewitt when describing her movie “The Client List.”  Apparently, it’s “empowering” for a woman to prostitute herself to save her family from financial difficulties. 
  • Democrap, Democretin, Republiclown, etc.  This is what I was trying to describe in the opening.  I HATE it when people use these words.  I immediately tune out.  It’s not cool.  It’s not clever.  It’s irritating and makes you sound like an idiot.
  • Discharge  No explanation necessary.
  • Sammich See Things Moms Say 

These are just a few off the top of my head.  Believe me, there are tons more.

What about you?  What words, when you here them, make you cringe or want to scream?